Frequently Asked Questions
When should I contact the mohel?
Contact me as soon as possible if you are considering having a Bris. This way, we will be prepared when the baby arrives.
When is a B'rit Milah held?
A B'rit Milah (Bris) is traditionally performed during daylight hours on the eighth day of a baby’s life. If the baby is born before sunset, that is counted as Day One. If after sunset, Day One is the following day. The ceremony can take place on Shabbat or a Jewish holiday. The baby’s pediatrician should confirm that he is medically ready for the circumcision.
Do you work with interfaith, LGBTQIA+, and multicultural families?
Yes, I am happy to work with all families to create a meaningful ceremony. Please let me know if you have any concerns or questions in this regard.
Do I need a rabbi?
As a mohel, I am fully prepared to lead both the medical and Judaic aspects of B'rit Milah and a rabbi is not required. Families with a connection to a rabbi or cantor do find their involvement particularly meaningful. I would be happy to collaborate with the Jewish clergy of your choice. I can also provide resources and connections to area synagogues and clergy, if desired.
How many people attend a Bris?
The size of the gathering for a bris is entirely up to the family. There is no requirement for a minyan (a quorum of 10 Jewish individuals) to be present.
Whom should we honor?
At a Bris, honors are typically given to those closest to the baby and the family, such as grandparents, great-grandparents, aunts, and uncles. The roles of kvater (who carries the baby into the room) and sandek (who comforts the baby during the circumcision) are particularly significant. Ultimately, the parents decide who will participate in the ceremony, and they can choose to include anyone they wish.
Where should we hold our Bris?
A Bris is typically held in your family home. It can also be held in any indoor location chosen by the parents, such as a community room or synagogue. While guests may gather outdoors, the circumcision itself must be performed indoors.
What are the naming customs?
Giving your baby a Hebrew name is part of the B'rit Milah ceremony and connects him to his Jewish heritage. As your mohel, I will offer resources and discuss possible options with you. Hebrew names are chosen based on family customs rather than strict rules. Naming practices may include honoring a living relative or one that has passed away. For Ashkenazic Jews, it is common to avoid naming a child after a living relative. The Hebrew name does not need to relate to his English name.
How much does the service cost?
The cost of officiating a B'rit Milah is $700, plus the cost of garage parking if needed. I accept Zelle, Venmo, checks, and cash.